September 30, 2011

  • My Birthday {Weekend}

    Of course, this is from my slightly jaded perspective, but my actual birthday (this past Monday) kind of sucked.

    I didn’t feel very good. I had a head cold or some sort of mild-ish flu, and I had to work even more hours than I normally do on a Monday.

    No one planned a surprise party for me.

    Which I secretly always hope for.

    I guess I never totally outgrew that thing of really liking my birthday and liking to be the “Special Person” for the day.

    But…lots of people left me wonderful birthday messages on Facebook, my sister stopped by, people texted me, my sister called, two good friends called…so yes, I felt very blessed by all of you in that way!

     

    Jeremy and I always go away for a weekend sometime around our birthdays. Mine is the end of September, his is the beginning of November.  We often go away sometime in October, but this year we went a little earlier because a) this was one of the weekends it suited our wonderful friends, Mike and Morgan, to keep the kids and b) we were going to be going 4-wheeling for part of the time and I would rather do that when it is still a little warmer outside.

    Friday late afternoon found me dropping the kids off with my sister (who kept them overnight and then delivered them to Morgan the next morning) and heading back home.

    We decided to save a little money and just stay at our own house on Friday night. We did go out to eat, which was really fun.

    I think this quote kind of sums up my weekend:

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    This seems to happen to me a lot.

    Yes, I knew the weekend was fun. But there were a couples of “downers”, including the fact that Jeremy didn’t feel very good. (Remember afore-mentioned head-cold..well, I think I caught it from him)

    But, when I looked through the pictures and talked about it later, I realized that the weekend was FULL of wonderful times and great moments…which turn into great memories.

    Here are the pictures:

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    Driving (We stopped at a “Fall Festival” in a little town near us on the way to our destination. It was so fun and cozy and fall-ish.)

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    The Rig.

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    Getting ready to hit the trails.

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    I know. I know. I look super classy. You don’t have to mention it.  Really!

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    This was after we had written for a while and found ourselves right back where we had started. Time to consult the map, people.  (We had a good laugh about that one!)

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    I stopped to take a picture of this tree. It was SO pretty.  (“Photo op” – I told Jeremy.  He just kind of sighed, but he waited for me.)

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    Some guys on dirt bikes who went past us while I was photographing the tree.

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    View from our hotel room window.  Lake Superior at sunset.  SO beautiful!

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    Just a bad picture of me. Before going out to dinner on Saturday evening. (Don’t pretend that you didn’t notice my prominent double chin. I totally saw you staring at it!)

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    We went on a walk down by the lakeshore on Sunday morning. It was a gorgeous day. Sunshiny and just awesome.  We held hands and walked and talked. Then we sat on a bench and talked some more.

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    And tried to take a picture of ourselves.

    This is the best one.

    Just trust me.

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    The one where you can’t see much of Jeremy.

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    And then we took some kissing pictures of ourselves.

    This is also the best one of those.

    Like I said…Trust me.

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    We went to this little hole-in-the-wall cafe for lunch.  I thought it was cute. Jeremy thought it lacked excellence.

    Yes, he actually said those words.

    Their French silk pie was quite tasty…that’s all I’m sayin’.

     

    And then we came back home.

    And our kids were having so much fun they barely noticed we were back.

    That’s how you know you left them with the right friends!

     

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    The End.

Comments (15)

  • sounds like a good time was had even though there were some times along the way where it just didn’t seem to have the spark you wanted…i’m glad that those moments turned into memories for you. thanks for sharing this journey Audrey.

  • Weekends away with my hubs are my favorite-est weekends EVER! So glad you got away and Happy Birthday, too. Are you 30 yet?;)

  • looks like you had a great time together!!!  

  • AW! I know you two must feel refreshed after that time together! Happy Birthday, a little late. :D

  • Awwww, AUDREY! You are a beautiful birthday girl, double chin or not! I am SO glad you were able to get away for some “alone” time with your hubby. Believe me, it’s SO worth the effort to do that OFTEN, especially when you have the right people to leave the kids with! I know the disappointment of no party, wanting to be the Special Person of the day, etc. It’s happened to me a few times, but  it seems that people make up for the lack of celebration by suprising you another time with a little special something or a BIG something special. So, I’ve learned to treasure the moments when ANYthing special happens for my sake!

  • i actually like the one with only a wee bit of jeremy. i love the expression on your face and how you can see just enough of him that you know why you look happy.

    sounds like a fun weekend!  and i was so bummed you had to work later that day, cause i was all excited about surprising you with a call!

  • I MISS Wisconsin in the fall. That tree is so pretty. 

    I think the four-wheeling looks like so much fun.  And I do know what the truth of that first quote.  Thank God for sweet memories.  Sometimes the anticipation and the memories are better than the actual experience.  I often think that about family trips. :)   Happy birthday again! 

  • aw i’m really jealous of the whole 4 wheeling adventure. That looks totally fun! We’d never have that much wide open wilderness to rip around in in this area, at least, not that I know of.
    ‘lacked excellance’ -that’s funny
    happy birthday, i think i forgot to post on your fb wall that day.

  • Oh, what a FUN weekend!! A night or two away from the kids is a rare thing for us, but when it happens it is always such a wonderful time! So glad you were able to do that! And my word, I would never ever have noticed your “double chin”  – but after you pointed it out, I still don’t think you have one – I think it’s just the angle the picture was taken from. :)

    And yes, I’m the “didn’t grow up from birthdays” girl too. :) I like some gifts, yes, but what really matters to me is that people remember and take the time to send a note or call or whatever… As it is, my birthday is always right around Thanksgiving, so it can easily get lost in the shuffle of all th busyness… :)

  • you are so sweet audrey! like lisa said, the one of mostly just you….beautiful. you look so at peace. :)

    yes, birthdays-  we expect this extra thrill, and sometimes it simply does not meet our expectations. at. all. On sept 23 I got up early and a few hours later I actually realised it WAS my birthday and then I sat at our garage sale all stinking day. had a huge argument with “someone” (no not Richard and this was totally rare, I promise!)  then ate supper at Apples Bee’s with Richard, the boys and my folks. Good enough, but no thriller. ;) Though anyone that has ever lost their husband, child or parents would disagree and say THAT would be a thriller.

     I do wish you a super thrilling year of 33, join me in NOT be depressed about our age! ;)

  • That four wheeler ride looks like a blast!  I think I’ve said this before, but I love the way you and Jeremy have fun together! It’s probably part of why you look so young. ;)  But seriously, I think that’s just the best kind of marriage to have!

  • Sorry to hear you felt so lousy on your bday but the weekend looked like lots of fun!  I would love to go four wheeling with my hubby but we need to get us some 4wheelers first.   Happy Belated Birthday!  Hope the year ahead is full of NICE surprises!

  • so glad you had a good birthday weekend, friend.. you’re so pretty! which i know sounds shallow and 3rd grader-ish – but you are!!

    i was thinking of you tonight when i saw your comment on my phone {which that makes no sense.. i mean, your comment on my post, and i was looking at it on my phone during halftime of ben’s football game. k. nuff details, eh?} ;) anyway. i thought of what an ATTENTIVE friend you are. seriously. i think since i met you here in blogland you’ve commented on nearly every single post of mine~ not that you have to. you know that. but then when i met you in real life, i saw the same thing… that personal attention and care for OTHERS! the interest in their lives and the WANTING to know more about them and build a deeper relationship.~ you are one of the kindest, most consistent people i know.

    anyway. i didn’t really mean to go off like that. but, well.. THAT’S what i was thinking of you earlier and just thought i’d spew. :)

    it’s been fun journeying and learning beside you, girl. xo 

  • Your posts aren’t showing up in my feed anymore. I may have to unsubscribe and resubscribe. What’s up with that?? I need the feed to remember!! lol

    I feel the same way about birthdays, exactly the same way. I always secretly hope for something awesome and special and it sort of always falls flat from that. I think to myself, “I’m a grownup, I should be over this by now” but that never actually makes me get over it.

    Your trip looks like lots of fun! :D I’m glad you got the chance to go.

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